A snipped of conversation with my 4yo whilst she bathed:
J: Mom, do you know what it means to be grown up?
M: ummm, no… what does it mean?
J: It means that you can go places by yourself. Just you… mom and dad… and no brother.
LOL! Perhaps some J time with mom and dad is in order. 
Too precious….definitely time for a little time with mom and dad.
Made me smile,
Barb-Harmony Art Mom